‘It takes a village to raise a child’ African Proverb
Building resilience is a topic of great interest to schools, families and health support agencies, to ensure our young children have the skills to deal with current difficulties as well as supporting the development of strategies and habits that will help them deal with challenges later in life.
Research has shown that resilience is partly shaped by the characteristics we are born with and partly by the environment we grow up in. We also know that the community surrounding the child plays a big part in supporting this development. The African proverb is so true – an entire community of people must interact with children for those children to experience and grow in a safe and healthy environment. Schools are also part of this village.
Research information from the American Psychological Association shows that the following factors play an important part in developing resilience:
- Positive parent child relationships from early years
- Support by extended family and friends
- Social - emotional schooling – building a solid foundation early and then build upon the skills. Schools build upon the skills children have learnt from home.
Beyond Blue has excellent resources in helping families with resilience growth. I particularly like the way they explain resilience on their website:
“One way of explaining the concept of resilience is to imagine a plane encountering turbulence mid-flight. The turbulence, or poor weather, represents adversity. Different planes will respond to poor weather conditions in different ways, in the same way different children respond to the same adversity in different ways. The ability of the plane to get through the poor weather and reach its destination depends on:
- the pilot (the child)
- the co-pilot (the child’s family, friends, teachers and health professionals)
- the type of plane (the child’s individual characteristics such as age and temperament)
- the equipment available to the pilot, co-pilots and ground crew
- the severity and duration of the poor weather.”
Beyond Blue also have developed a suite of excellent strategies to support families build resilience. https://healthyfamilies.beyondblue.org.au/healthy-homes/building-resilience
How to:
- build good relationships with others
- build their independence
- learn to identify, express and manage emotions
- build confidence by taking on personal challenges
We know that resilience is something that can change over time, that skills can be learnt, that it will look different in different settings – family, cultural and broader community environments. We will continue to work in partnership with parents and support agencies to ensure our students have the skills they need for their future challenges.
Debbie West-McInnes
Head of Primary